tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24139383.post1703191592162672425..comments2023-10-31T05:56:29.210-05:00Comments on Sexual Evolution: saying no.Amanda Hollowayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07567728932144057419noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24139383.post-7672285618232674652006-10-25T04:22:00.000-05:002006-10-25T04:22:00.000-05:00Life is about motion... whatever the task...whatev...Life is about motion... whatever the task...whatever the goal... the way you stop something is most often a function of how you started it in the first place. "No" is an essential safety valve and should be respected, but it is on par with "stop"... like that emergency red button on a runaway machine and it denies the motion as a whole. The word you need is "slow"... the calm and well managed return to a speed which is comfortable for you and does not deny the motion altogether. Press the brake slowly and the ride will continue safely on its path or diverge according to the new sensation... fill your tank...bring a snack... read the map... put on some tunes... the ride is fun even if you end up back were you started.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com